《自律養生實踐家之旅317》 最最重要的事情
要釐清什麼是最重要的事,首先得對「時間」有真切的覺悟:時間只有此刻,沒有過去,也沒有未來。
因為,過去已逝,未來未至。沒有所謂「等我有時間就會做的事」,也不會有「等我有錢就會做的事」,一旦真正理解時間的本質,我們會省下許多空間、時間與金錢。
家中若雜亂,多半不是因為空間太小,而是物品太多。那些「多餘」,往往來自對時間的誤解,許多東西根本不再會用,像是不會再穿的衣服、不會再讀的書。
我從人體的自我更新機制中,領悟到取捨的重要性。身體每天會處理記憶,並在睡眠時進行篩選,重要的資訊被儲存,不重要的自然剔除。
人類學家羅賓·鄧巴提出「鄧巴數字150」,代表一個人能維繫穩定人際關係的上限。這不只在現實生活中成立,也反映了人類記憶體的容量極限。
To clarify what matters most, we must first awaken to the truth of time: there is only now. No past, no future. The past is gone. The future has not yet come. There’s no such thing as “I’ll do it when I have time,” or “I’ll do it when I have money.” Once we truly grasp the nature of time, we begin saving vast amounts of space, energy, and money.
If a home is cluttered, it’s often not due to lack of space, but an excess of possessions — things we keep due to a misunderstanding of time: clothes we’ll never wear again, books we’ll never reread.
Through studying the body’s self-renewal mechanisms, I’ve come to understand the importance of letting go. The body processes memories and detoxifies during sleep, keeping what matters, eliminating what does not.
Anthropologist Robin Dunbar proposed “Dunbar’s Number” — 150 — the upper limit of stable human relationships. This isn’t just a social observation; it also reflects the limits of human memory capacity.








































